Boyfriend

When it comes to love, just don’t lie yourself or people surrounding you are an anti-love person.

Attracting with somebody is totally not wrong. Even it’s called a normal life for a normal person. Me myself sometimes love to see the guys who I catch interesting for my sight. know what I love to see 6-packs guys (aauuchh....~), not a very fair guys, (I’m not even fair thats the reason.. haha) smart ones and polite. So what??! Love to see these guys doesn’t mean we fall in love with them right? it’s a normal act like other teens do too. Just don’t overdo it, girls.

                                    

                     

                        ~Dominic Cooper, Penn Badgley in the houssseeee....

...a real story to share with u guys upon my experiences in love. I actually have no sweet moments with any special guys till I got 18. Lots of my buddies did not trust me so. It’s a real fact that I haven’t much experience in love because of the family. 

   

      ~my elder bro

I discovered it and I found it that it is because of the family rules. I’m the youngest and the two elder brothers controlled my social life really. But seriously speak, I really don’t mind at all because I know and understand that it’s all for my own goods. And I really appreciate and thank God because now I realize why they did so. Since I was studying in girl’s primary and secondary schools, so I have no boys’ friends at all for 11 years long. But really I don’t mind at all because I had wonderful times with the girls’ friends. I wasn't even desperate not to have one. Plus, when I was in matriculation college, I was still thinking not to have a special one because I want to be friends with lots of guys. Not falling in love with them. Yuupp I love to flirt but not wishing to get their loves. But people change. Me too have changed. I’m not thinking such that way today.

   

      ~18 year-old me

I’m not a good one to potpetpotpot#$%^ upon love advices at all. But let hear me so that we are not going to be upset one day just because of a person u called BOYFRIEND.

    1. Don’t trust boys..even a wife should not trust her husband 100%. Future is totally can’t be predicted. Anything may be happen as time goes by. Don’t give 100% of you to them. You are not him yet. Just when he will be kissing you on the wedding day, so you guys are totally your own and the day is the first day you may show him everything the way you are. Even God will be blessing you guys if you could love and protect each other. But..let the day comes first then you will know the power of love then. But not know ok!!

      2. “Study must be the first!! Be professional in a relationship!” ..that was the way my elder sister used to tell me once before I came here. And till know, and in future I will remember it. To have a boyfriend while we are in study is not really a big matter. But study and family must go first.

      3. Manage your time well. Yes, I can’t deny that we have to give some commitments in a relationship. To be committed ones doesn’t mean to call him, texting him, chatting with him in ym or speaking via 3G each minute. Ask ‘eat already or not?’, ‘pray already or not?’..or ask this and that till you yourself forget to eat or whatever. For me, why do you have to do so? Your guys are not 10-year-old little boy right? You may ask such that tiny questions, just do not overdo it ok.

                    
                        ~jonas

   

....Boys are all innocent. We as girls are the ones who have to take good care of ourselves and always remember your precious parents and family. 

     

Love Allah first, boyfriends later..